HOW TO TEACH SEXUALITY TO YOUR CHILDREN

HOW TO TEACH SEXUALITY TO YOUR CHILDREN

ME! Sex educate my children?
Yes, don’t let adolescent sexuality sneak up on you, before you’ve had a chance to offer parental, basic sex education, to yours truly beloved children.

It is inevitable the first lessons on sexuality should be taught at home by you because parents know what to tell their children about sex.

You are the only trust worthy person, who can offer sexuality guidance to your children without bias, destructive influences, and negative peer pressure.

Parental taught sexuality gives your children a sense of worth, Identity, emotional anchorage, self-esteem, and personal strength, i.e., gives them a precious commodity- sexuality security.
Parental taught sexuality, imparts priceless sexual wisdom to your children, guiding them for a lifetime. It gives your children a sense of balance, a keen understanding and judgement, on sexual matters.

The best time to talk about sex is at infancy.

The problem is, parents don’t know how to tell the sexuality story to their children.

THINGS YOU’LL NEED:
a) A teaching heart.
b) Time
c) Patience
d) Love
e) Basic sexuality Education materials e.g books.

INSTRUCTIONS:

Step 1.FREEDOM TO ASK AND TO BE ANSWERED.
a) Create a free two way communication traffic between you and your children.
b) You must truthfully answer baby questions from the first one ever asked to win baby’s trust.
c) You should never blush when baby asks embarrassing questions, nor should you reproach him or her. Take these moments to teach.

Step 2.LEARNING SEXUALITY FROM THE BEST TEACHER.
a) The best teacher is the one a pupil can trust, love; rely on and look up to-you.
b) Start teaching sexuality at early childhood.
c) Be proactive. Ask your child probing questions on sexuality to help him or her start learning.


Step 3
a) A mother should be candid with her ten years old daughter about her sexuality likewise father and sons.
b) At ages nine and ten, you must be available, sensitive, friendly and understanding to the emotional and physical changes about to be experienced by your child.

Step 4
Transmit your sexuality values to your Childs sexuality.
Set moderate rules for your adolescent child in the areas of friendship and interaction with the opposite sex.

Step 5
Where sexuality maters are concerned, ask your adolescent child, questions with atmost care and understanding to avoid resentment.

Step 6
Supervise your Childs choice of friends and outings.

Step 7
Use friendship created since childhood to influence your adolescent child sexuality choices positively, while being firm when necessary.

TIPS:
a) Start tackling sexuality at infancy and you shall find it easy to talk about even at early teens.

WARNING:
a) Six year olds don’t need to know or understand the pleasures of adult’s sexuality
If you fail to teach your child sexuality, he or she will be taught by this cruel world, which may result to early sexual experimentation, drug and sex abuse.

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