Wednesday, November 19, 2008

HOW TO TEACH SEXUALITY TO YOUR CHILDREN

HOW TO TEACH SEXUALITY TO YOUR CHILDREN

ME! Sex educate my children?
Yes, don’t let adolescent sexuality sneak up on you, before you’ve had a chance to offer parental, basic sex education, to yours truly beloved children.

It is inevitable the first lessons on sexuality should be taught at home by you because parents know what to tell their children about sex.

You are the only trust worthy person, who can offer sexuality guidance to your children without bias, destructive influences, and negative peer pressure.

Parental taught sexuality gives your children a sense of worth, Identity, emotional anchorage, self-esteem, and personal strength, i.e., gives them a precious commodity- sexuality security.
Parental taught sexuality, imparts priceless sexual wisdom to your children, guiding them for a lifetime. It gives your children a sense of balance, a keen understanding and judgement, on sexual matters.

The best time to talk about sex is at infancy.

The problem is, parents don’t know how to tell the sexuality story to their children.

THINGS YOU’LL NEED:
a) A teaching heart.
b) Time
c) Patience
d) Love
e) Basic sexuality Education materials e.g books.

INSTRUCTIONS:

Step 1.FREEDOM TO ASK AND TO BE ANSWERED.
a) Create a free two way communication traffic between you and your children.
b) You must truthfully answer baby questions from the first one ever asked to win baby’s trust.
c) You should never blush when baby asks embarrassing questions, nor should you reproach him or her. Take these moments to teach.

Step 2.LEARNING SEXUALITY FROM THE BEST TEACHER.
a) The best teacher is the one a pupil can trust, love; rely on and look up to-you.
b) Start teaching sexuality at early childhood.
c) Be proactive. Ask your child probing questions on sexuality to help him or her start learning.


Step 3
a) A mother should be candid with her ten years old daughter about her sexuality likewise father and sons.
b) At ages nine and ten, you must be available, sensitive, friendly and understanding to the emotional and physical changes about to be experienced by your child.

Step 4
Transmit your sexuality values to your Childs sexuality.
Set moderate rules for your adolescent child in the areas of friendship and interaction with the opposite sex.

Step 5
Where sexuality maters are concerned, ask your adolescent child, questions with atmost care and understanding to avoid resentment.

Step 6
Supervise your Childs choice of friends and outings.

Step 7
Use friendship created since childhood to influence your adolescent child sexuality choices positively, while being firm when necessary.

TIPS:
a) Start tackling sexuality at infancy and you shall find it easy to talk about even at early teens.

WARNING:
a) Six year olds don’t need to know or understand the pleasures of adult’s sexuality
If you fail to teach your child sexuality, he or she will be taught by this cruel world, which may result to early sexual experimentation, drug and sex abuse.

SOURCE:
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Lesson to learn from Noah’s ARK:
“Plan ahead. It wasn’t raining when Noah built the ARK”.

Monday, November 10, 2008

HOW TO HAVE A MEMORABLE CHRISTMAS WITH KRISPIE TREATS

HOW TO HAVE A MEMORABLE CHRISTMAS WITH KRISPIE TREATS


So what is Christmas?


Santa oh Santa, don’t you ever retire?



Christmas is an annual festival on December 25th commemorating the birth of Christ, the son of man, Gods only begotten son, Jesus Christ.


Christmas is a festive season, symbolized by the evergreen Christmas tree or imitation of one, decorated as part of Christmas celebrations.


World over, Christmas is celebrated by Christians, persons who believe and follow Christ.



For developed worlds’ children christmas is fun, enjoyment, family get together and a time to greet Santa Claus, Father Christmas, Pere Noel, or Saint Nicholas. A day to receive christmas boxes from family and friends.



For third world slums children, christmas means the arrival of charity. Perhaps a pair of shoes, a slice of bread or a drink of juice for the first time in their lifes. Christmas for them is a beautiful day that brings possibilities of going to bed on a full stomach for the first time this year.



For parents and adults in general, Christmas often means hectic activities, extra stress, and cash demands that can be hard to meet.



Spend your time, money, and energy on activities that will build family traditions and make memories for your children. Memories they will treasure for a lifetime.



THINGS YOU WILL NEED


a) 5 cups rice Krispies


b) ¼ cup butter or margarine


c) 4 cup mini-marshmallows


d) Red or green food coloring


e) Metal cookie cutters in Christmas shapes.


INSTRUCTIONS


Step 1


Melt margarine in a 3-quart saucepan


Step 2


Add marshmallows


Step 3


Cook under low heat


Step 4


Add food coloring


Step 5


Stir until the color is well mixed in.


Step 6


Remove from heat


Step 7


Add cereal and stir until well coated.


Step 8


Press into a cookies sheet and let cool


Step 9


Use metal charismas-shaped cookies cutter to cut out some charismas treats.


Step 10


Share some Christmas treat with the garbage collectors, the mailman and friends.




Tips


a) Surprise the garbage collector and the mailman with your Christmas treats-gift.


b) Share some Christmas Krispie treats with the nearest shelter for the needy.


c) Make it an all inclusive family event.



Warning


No alcohol, make it a sober Christmas family fun day, with Krispie treats.



Words of Wisdom


“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.”


Winston Churchill



………………….Give some this Christmas…………….



I wish you a very happy memorable Christmas.



Steve



SOURCE


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